What Would Carrie Bradshaw Advise You To Wear this Spring/Summer 2012?

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Maybe it’s the fact that I haven’t been in London for so many months, maybe it’s because during this trip I have been more reflective than I have in a long, long time or maybe it’s just because I will do anything not to revise for my upcoming exams; but I’ve been watching my box set of Sex and The City, from season 1 to season 6.

Sex and The City closed its curtains in 2004, and it’s hard for me to believe that it is almost ten years old as the topics still feel so relevant, and will always be as long as men, women and fashion continue to co-exist in this worldMy favourite seasons for Carrie’s style are Season 2, 3 and 4.  And I feel Season 3, was when Carrie really came into her own- with the ghetto-gold earrings, corsages et al.

My love for vintage dresses sprung from Liberty Ross (who in a magazine introduced me to a market called Portobello Market) and Carrie Bradshaw. Yes it’s 2012 and we now have extremely fashion-conscious TV shows which I loosely group into Rich Kid Fashion (e.g. Gossip Girl, 90210 and Revenge), Corporate-Chic Fashion ( e.g. The Good Wife), Period Drama Fashion ( e.g. Downton Abbey) and Fantasy Fashion (e.g. True Blood and Game of Thrones).

However, despite Sex and the City style seeming ancient in fashion years, I feel that Carrie Bradshaw in seasons 2-4 had better style than the Serena’s and Blair’s of today, reason being, due to her trademark mix of vintage and designer pieces- she managed to look as if she hadn’t been styled to the very last inch of her life by Patricia Field.  More importantly, Carrie wore dresses in a way that experimented boldly with fashion and showed a sense of  humour.  A feat that in my opinion, no other TV Show character has been able to repeat.

At the moment, it is absolutely sweltering and the fashion media are dictating that for S/S 12, women should be wearing pastels, florals, peplums, pleated skirts, fluoros, sport inspired pieces etcHowever, even though Carrie wore a lot of the below outfits, almost ten years ago, I believe that they translate effortlessly into the here and now, and can be worn by women now, then and forever.

I have divided them into trends and hope these images inspire you this summer-

1. Get Your Whites Whiter (p.s how amazing is this parasol?)

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2. Want Print? Go Floral-

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3. Pearls are a Girl’s Best Friend-

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4. Print It.  Trust Carrie to interpret the Print Trend literally, with this deliciously, shameless label-pushing Newspaper print dress-

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5. Romance is back.  Carrie makes us feel whistful and optimistic in soft, sugary, pretty pastels-

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6. Say it with Stripes and Killer Abs (if you’ve got them!)-

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7. Get a Vintage Frock.  Now.

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8. Be Colour-Bold.

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9. Clash Everything-

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10. Bring out your inner hippie/festival bunny in Tie-Dye.  The below outfit is often on the ‘Top 10 Worst Carrie outfits’ blog list, but I love it.  It is the perfect example of Carrie Bradshaw having fun with fashion, and I love the nod to ‘The Ghetto’ that was given in these episodes with the earrings, headkerchief et al-

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What about the corsages, I hear you ask; those images will be coming shortly wrapped up in another blog post.  I went to a countryside wedding recently where I wore one, in fact, my whole outfit was a nod to vintage Carrie Bradshaw mixed with my style (of course).  The blog post will be about that and my favourite vintage shop which allows me to turn my vintage dreams into reality, so patience, patience.

And by the by, which is your favourite Carrie Bradshaw outfit?

My Stylish Tribute To Donna Summer

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It was with great sadness that I learnt Donna Summer passed away earlier today.  Since I was a teenager, one of my birthday dreams is to have a party, where for the entrance, I am lowered down from the ceiling sitting astride a giant disco ball as Donna Summer’s legendary, ‘I Feel Love’ is playing.

My favourite era of ‘The Queen of Disco’ was the 70s and 80s where she spawned hits like, ‘Love to Love You Baby’, ‘Hot Stuff’ and ‘Could It Be Magic’; everything about her at that time oozed luxuriously, decadent glamour and sex appealThere is no denying that till today, several artists pay tribute to some of her iconic looks.  For example, her look for this below cover was to be later imitated by Kelis-

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Being a huge fan of ‘Extravaganz-A’, I just love the way Donna Summer pulled off outfits that had ‘a lot going on’, and were heavy on embellishment.  She always managed to do so without the outfit ever wearing her, and without looking like she had been styled to the very last inch of her life, which is the case now with so many artists of today-

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Such was Donna’s versatility in music and style, that she could go from blatant raunchy costumes as seen above, to toning it down but still looking the business.  On a side note, this dress fits in very nicely with the current floral print trend-

I also adore this retro number-

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Here is eclectic, mismatched parings at its best-

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From a style point of view, there is no doubt that Donna Summer was ‘Every Woman’.  But she also left her mark on the beauty industry too, in the 70s and 80s she was well-known for her big hair and statement eyelashes-

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Why I find this news especially sad is that for the past few months, I have a ritual in Berlin where I play the below Donna Summer video before I go out at night.  I loved the energy she emanates, and how she worked that leopard print dress with net tulle detailing-

And how fierce are these gold boots?-

R.I.P, Donna, you were not just ‘The Queen of Disco’, you will always be The Queen.

Ask Biki? Berlin Hair Salon Query

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Yes, yes, I am totally supposed to be ‘away’ and not blogging at the moment but I woke up to a very interesting request and in my opinion- an emergency!!-and I thought the best thing would be to share the request and my response on my blog, in case it helps others who have a similar query.  And furthermore, the topic is one that is very dear and important to me, and has become increasingly so since I moved to Berlin and the topic boys and girls is HAIR.

Although I will not be posting as frequently as I used to for the next few weeks or so, I will be coming back to  ‘my baby’, when I am especially compelled to do so.  And without further ado-

Hi Biki,

I came across your blog when doing some research for hair salons here in Berlin. I’m mixed /Caribbean and usually get my hair texturized, but I fly to London every few months to do it – clearly I cannot keep up that extravagant lifestyle! So I have been contemplating going to Ebony & Ivory as it’s pretty much the only place I’ve heard about.

You mentioned that you went and you had liked it – can you give me any more info on your experience there? They have no website, which makes me kind of suspect… can you give me any more info on it in general? I looked for it elsewhere on your blog and only found your other horrifying hair experience! Not exactly sure what info I’m looking for – reassurance, I guess? I’m extremely nervous about going to a salon here, but really cannot keep flying to London every two minutes as if I have some sort of trust fund!

Any info you can share would be much appreciated, and thanks for sharing on your blog!

Cheers, Liz

Dear Liz

First of all, thank you so much for reaching out to me in this way- your type of request is what gives me the fuel to continue with my blog; I want to help people by sharing my opinions and experiences- (which includes the good, the bad, and the very ugly!!)

Liz, I know exactly how you are feeling because one of my main concerns when I moved from London to Berlin, was whether I too would have to make frequent trips to London just for the sake of tending to my natural Afro hair; and just like you I didn’t want to rack up those costly air miles unnecessarily.

First of all let me reassure you that having had my hair done at Ebony & Ivory, this is one of the rare instances where a company not having a website does not attest to its performance and reputation.  Having been there a few times, I believe that the salon gets its customers based on the old-school way- word of mouth.  I for one got to know about the salon when being fed up with the many ‘ghetto’ hair salons I was encountering in Berlin and unencouraging/unhelpful opinions from friends; I was almost about to book my London ticket when (in sheer desperation!!) I stopped a lady on the street who I thought had nice, relaxed hair and asked her where she got her hair done; it was when she replied that her hair had been done at, ‘Ebony & Ivory’, and gave it rave reviews that I decided to take the plunge.

You mention that you are nervous about going into a hair salon in general in Berlin and you are looking for reassurance.  So, rest assured Liz you have nothing to worry about and I vouch for Ebony & Ivory for the following reasons-

1) No riDUNKulous waiting time: those of you who have had the joy of going to black hair salons regularly know what I mean by this!  I was pleasantly surprised that after booking an appointment with the receptionist (who was professional, again ladeeez, you know what I am talking about!!); I was pleased to discover that I only had to wait in the reception area for about 10 minutes before I was seen to.

2) Hygienic surroundings:  this is something that is of great importance when I am getting my hair done; I once visited a ‘hair salon’ in Berlin that not only did hair but sold food stuffs, house cleaning detergents, clothes and the mind-boggling like, and on top of all that cluttered jazz, when you entered the ‘salon’ your senses were overpowered by an all-consuming stench, needless to say I never got my hair done there.  Not only are the reception and hair areas in Ebony & Ivory ‘picture-ready’, their toilets are in good condition as well, and one does not have to wash their hands with Fairy liquid, or pull ’tissues’ from a crumpled,suspicious looking packet- ladies you know what I am talking about! Ebony & Ivory on the other hand, have a well furnished, clean, fresh smelling hair salon.  Can I get an Amen, followed by a Hallelu?

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4) Great Service: This is also something I take seriously at hair salons, I have been to quite a number of hair salons where to book the appointment was like trying to go uphill in skates, and then upon entering the salon I have found out that the person who I had spoken to for almost an hour trying to simply explain that I wanted a ‘hair appointment for Tuesday at 10am’, hadn’t managed to translate and convert my simple wishes into an actual booking,  meaning that when I arrived at the salon, there was no record of my booking and I had to be fit into another, much later, hair appointment slot.  Infuriating.  There is none of that at Ebony & Ivory, from the professional receptionist, to the tidy receptionist area where instead of the common tatty magazines dated in 100BC, you are presented with up to date magazines that are intact.  Beware though, the owner- Deborah- loves Oprah and so there is a healthy supply of O magazine!!  Another thing that made me warm up to the salon, was I was offered a choice of beverages whilst I waited in the reception area and whilst I was doing my hair. It’s all about the finishing touches folks, and not only it comes to hair.

5) Price: That’s what it all comes down to, innit?  I am happy to report that in my opinion, Ebony & Ivory is good value for your moneyI wish I had a hair style price list to give you but I don’t, however I can tell you that when I had my natural hair washed, treated, styled and trimmed it cost about 35 euros, and without the trim I was told that it would have been below 30 euros.  I thought this was reasonable.

So that’s my review of Ebony & Ivory, I hope it was of use to you and encourages you to pick up that phone and book your appointment I would also advise you to ask for your hair to be done by Deborah- the owner of the salon, as she is the one who tended to my hair styling and trim the last time.

Good luck!

On a side note, I would like to give a special thanks to the blogger at Latashaathomeabroad.blogspot.co.uk, because upon finding that Ebony & Ivory had no website, it was her blog review post on the salon that encouraged me to go to Ebony & Ivory, and in the end she saved me a hell of a lot of airplane money!!

Ebony & Ivory- Potsdamer Strasse 158, 10785

Tel- (030) 2163749

Bye Bye Blog…

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…but only for a little while!  Since I started this blog I have been trying to balance it with all the other work I do and it’s been a hard but pleasurable struggle.  No matter how busy I’ve been I’ve tried to average 2/3 posts a week. But for the next few weeks, I doubt I will be able to make that.  You see, today I travel to London for many reasons, one of which is to take an Advertising exam, that makes up my Marketing Communications diploma.

And after my trip to London, I go to Nigeria and that I am particularly excited and very nervous about as I am going to the international school I do freelance work for to head my very own creative writing workshop and give a Public Relations/Marketing Presentation to the school.  Furthermore- I have been writing a short story children’s book which is almost done, and I want to have a seminar with some of the students (I’ve selected specially) to test how my book is received by my target audience.

So as you can see, I will be doing a lot and all of the above is not fashion related, but that is why I called this blog, My Fashion S/ash Life- this is how my life is.  And with this work load, my blog is going to have to take a back seat.

Speaking of fashion, I am so, so excited to be travelling to London because I will be able to do what I call ‘shopping’, for the first time in about a year.  I’ve been in Berlin now for almost a year and so far, my shopping here has been purely functional- so I’ll buy a vest here, a pair of leggings there but never anything substantial- because since I’ve been here, I’ve not felt that need and I’ve done more furniture shopping for my new flat, than anything else.

So although I will be crazy busy in London, there are a few items that I hope I can get- my summer wish-list if you will- and it includes-

1. An 80′s/90′s Madonna-inspired black lace bustier, as worn below-

I really hope I am able to find one in my favourite retro shops because I love how versatile this piece is, I can dress it up by wearing it with my black sequins bolero, I can ‘man it’ up with my beige ‘boyfriend blazer’ or I can raunch it up by pairing it with my black pleather skirt…ahhhh the endless possibilities….

2.  I want to get a maxi dress, possibly prairie style, which I can toughen or ‘grunge’ up by wearing it with ‘hard as nails’ boots and a rockn’ leather jacket to boot, as Drew Barrymore executes so well here-

3) Speaking of ankle boots, I really want a pair with great studded detail like these fire engine red beauties which would suit me to a T-

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Hell, I’ll take them in black too-

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And there it is folks, my simple desires…

I’d like to thank each and every one of you who have taken the time to leave me blog comments, give me those ‘oh so desirable’ Facebook likes and share my posts on Linkedin and Twitter.  Your feedback/proactive reactions are greatly appreciated and needed, so please keep them coming.

Also hard as it may be, I will post (although infrequently) to let you know how my various projects unfold and give you a visual insight into what I was wearing as these developments happened!

Till next time! xx

What’s It Like Being A Black Girl in Berlin?

I was asked this very question by a girl as we both queued for the toilets in the infamous club, Berghein.   Now this question has been frequently directed at me by both blacks and Caucasians since I moved to Berlin, and it is what inspired me to write this article; my blog is called My Fashion S/ash L-I-F-E after all!

I have to stress here that my below facts and findings are based on my personal experiences, so if you want to read an article where I come to my conclusions based on research and statistics; this is not the article for you and I urge you to click your ‘escape’ button. Now.

Moving on, when people ask me this question they often follow it with an apology and use the racist, historical facts of Germany and how they know one black person who is finding it hard to live in Berlin due to the colour of his/her skin.

Personally, I think the following facts about myself made my transition to Berlin run smoothly (well, as smoothly as moving to a foreign city can allow), despite the colour of my skin-

  • At the age of 11, I attended an English boarding school, where I was the first black person to attend.  So I grew up in an environment where there were not a lot of ‘me’s’ around and I always remember a Nigerian mentor I had telling me- ‘You have to not only go to your school, but let your school go through you’.  This motto has stayed with me from my teens till now, and I use it to take active measures to integrate into a society where I am the minority.
  •  Education is a powerful weapon.  I came to Berlin having attended the best law schools in the United Kingdom, and although I don’t work in the legal profession now- the experiences I went through have made me go through life for the most parts with a certain confidence and knowledge that makes me feel a lot more than being ‘black’.
  • As a black person, I have had more positive experiences and acceptance of who I am (both in colour and character) from Germans in Berlin, than I have had in my own native country, Nigeria and from many of my ‘fellow Nigerians’.

I would say that the following tips have helped me survive as a ‘black girl in Berlin’, and I think some of what I say can apply to non-blacks who decide to move to Berlin-

1) In the words of the infamous Michael Jackson, ‘Black or White’ rap,

Don’t ‘Spend Your Life Being A Colour’

For the most parts, I don’t go through Berlin feeling like a ‘black girl in Berlin’, I go through Berlin feeling like Biki John- and that makes a huge difference in the energy I radiate and the response I get back.

2)  Be Very Careful Who You Surround Yourself With

Personally, I find that two particular facts about Berlin make it both a curse and a blessing- firstly, the fact that it is a ‘party around the clock’ city and secondly, living expenses are relatively cheaper when compared to other cosmopolitan cities like London.  These two facts have ensured that I have never met so many lost souls/drifters who over indulge in the Ennui lifestyle, in my short period of being here.

Amongst the talented and successful, hard working creatives in Berlin, I find that there is a whirlpool full of wannabe and failed artists who in the infamous words of TLC, are ‘always talking about what they want and just sit on their broke ass’.  Initially when I moved to Berlin, it was bewildering for me to meet people in their thirties who still avoided paying for their travel fares, and to meet thirty-somethings who lived in shared accommodation with 5 or more people.  I also quickly found that for some, that supposed ‘carefree and bohemian spirit’ often came laced with deeper and darker undertones like clinical depression which presented itself randomly in forms of jealousy and childish attention-seeking acts.

Case in point, I used to be acquainted with a thirty-something old woman who considered herself a ‘freespirit’, and to drive the point home, she would often regale me with tales of her fondness of stealing from shops and practice of unsafe sex.  On top of this uneducated, destructive and irresponsible behaviour came the fact that in the short time I knew this woman I saw how she came to Berlin with big career plans, and in just a few months, those goals were washed away as she settled for the seductive Ennui Berlin Lifestyle, which changed both her physical appearance and behaviour for the worse.

One day I was sitting with the woman in a group and I realised that if I wasn’t careful, I was going to be sucked into a vortex of nothing and I did not want to associate frequently with people whose opinions and lifestyles I did not respect and certainly didn’t want to emulate.  And so little by little, I distanced myself from the woman, as I did not want to live a life where I was on a constant fairground ride because the dizzying lights and constant swaying motion would make me sick- in more ways than one.

I personally think that in Berlin, as a freelancer and foreigner to boot, it is very easy for one to get ‘lost’ in the (deeper sense of the word) and I would advise all freelancers who come to Berlin to find ways to ensure that by the end of each week, they are one step closer to their goals.  For me, I try to do this by writing a To-Do work list every day and writing monthly targets.  I have also made a conscious effort to befriend people in Berlin who have steady jobs and a regular income to make sure I am surrounded by a good balance of influences and lifestyles.

3) Make An Effort To Befriend Berliners

Following on from that, I will state that what has really helped my stay so far in Berlin are the extra efforts I have made to befriend the Berliners/Germans here.  Not only does befriending Germans come with its obvious benefits like getting a real insight into the language and culture; property is increasing hard to find here due to the surge of expatriates that have charged into the city.  The two flats I have lived in since moving here where both found with the help of Berliners, and I can safely say that I would never have got such a good deal on my own.

Also if you live alone, as I currently do befriending German speakers/Berliners will definitely come in handy.  I recently went through an episode involving some workers in my flat who didn’t speak a word of English, and I would never have got through this stressful period without my German friends who took the time to explain how things work here, what my rights were and even went as far as calling the company of the workers to speak to them on my behalf.  And now I am happy to report that everything has been solved in that respect!

4)  Do Your Research On The Safest Districts To Live In

One of the things I love about Berlin is how safe I feel in comparison to a much more multi-cultural city like London.  When I told someone that, they told me it was because I live and socialise in the Prenzlaur Berg, Neukölln, Kreuzberg, Mitte bubble.  And it is in this bubble I intend to stay until I leave Berlin.

5) Use Your Search Engine To The Fullest

Admittedly, as a black girl, there are two things that I have struggled to try to find in Berlin- good hair salons and hip-hop classes.  With the former and latter these are being tackled by Google searches and trial & error.  If you read my blog, you will know that I have already found a good, clean and professional salon (Ebony & Ivory) which tends to natural and relaxed hair.  Also I am currently sporting cornrows, which have been receiving rave reviews and I had this style done at Afro Lydia’s Hair Salon.

Regarding dance classes, by doing a lot of online research, I recently found a dance studio near me and had a throughly non-inspiring ‘MTV Dance Class’ last week.  But I will try my luck again when I am back in Berlin with a different dance class.

6) Bring Nigeria (insert your own country of origin) To Berlin

And finally, as a ‘black girl in Berlin’ what I do and began doing a few years ago was to ensure that I take measures to stay connected to my ‘Motherland’.  So for e.g. in this blog, I have an ‘African section’ which has allowed me to connect with Nigerians and other Africans and I also do freelance creative writing for a Nigerian School, and have just ante’d that up to doing freelance Public Relations work as well.

In conclusion, where there is a will AND DISCIPLINE, there is a way in Berlin.  With this article I am not claiming to be a ‘Black Berlin Expert’ or even a ‘Berlin Expert’; I am still learning my way around here, and on the way I have tripped, fallen and got up again.  I hope one of my tips/experiences helps someone- black or non black- moving to Berlin.

Kids Do It Better

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If you read my blog you will be familiar with this recurring section of my blog.  It is a topic I plan to keep doing if only because, I believe that there needs to be more of a positive reflection of African kids in the media.  Assembling pictures for this blog is so difficult because no matter how I phrase the search words on Google, I am bombarded with images of emaciated, barely clothed children surrounded by a swarm of flying insects.  Yes this problem exists in Africa.  Yes, the problem needs to be addressed, reinforced and so on.  But there is more to the state of African kids than that and both sides of the coin should be shown.  There is also the side that shows that African kids can be looked upon as a source of fashion and beauty inspiration.  Furthermore, the fact that many of them at such a young age can carry of such bold hair statement and style pieces is something that should be celebrated.  This is what I try to do with this section of my blog-

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I’d love to hear from mothers to  know the media sources they look to for clothing and hairstyle inspirations for their children.  Do you watch any particular TV stations? Do you read blogs?

Nigerian Traditional Weddings- Where Glamour and Style Meet

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My sister went for a wedding in Trinidad recently, and when she told me she had gone to a Nigerian wedding, I urged and begged her to send me the pictures of her in her traditional attire. I have never worn an iro (blouse) and buba (wrapper) myself, but I do love seeing how other people carry it of.

When my sister sent me the picture, I ooohed and aaahed over it for several seconds-

I haven’t attended a Nigerian traditional wedding for a while and I have missed seeing ladies dressed in colourful ensembles like this.

If I had to pick the aspects I love best about Nigerian traditional pieces that are worn to weddings; I would have to start with the mixture of colour and print that come out to play as featured above.  The next thing I love is the amazing hairstyles that one can witness, as well as the eye-catching accessory pieces as shown below-

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I absolutely adore coral jewellery and can’t wait to own some pieces-

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I find that when it comes to Nigerian traditional outfits, it’s the detailing that make the looks ricochet of the glamour scale.  For instance, I love the fact that ladies often pair their ensembles with fans, that are often colour-cordinated to match their outfits.  In the first picture, my sister is holding a S-wonderful fern-green feather fan which I gave her as a Christmas gift, and here is how this lady chose to pair her fan with her outfit-

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The lady below decided to funk things up by experimenting with her nail polish-

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I just adore this ladies colour/print combination and accessorizing.  Also by now, I’m sure you have noticed the elaborate ways, the headpieces (geles) are worn at Nigerian weddings-

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Next month a very, very dear friend of mine is getting married and I am seuper, seuper (no, that’s not a typo) excited to attend the countryside wedding.  Unfortunately an iro and buba combo may be a tad  much for tut country.

How about the rest of you, are you attending any weddings soon?  What are you planning on wearing?  Where are you planning on buying your wedding ensemble from?

Interview With Fiction’s Rising New Star, Chichi J

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My Fashion S/ash life is very excited to have caught up with Chichi J- a medical doctor (specialising in Neuromuscular medicine and physiatry) to discuss her debut novel, ‘Tales of Fantasy and Reality’, which comes out this May 2012.

Front cover illustration of, 'Tales of Fantasy & Reality'. Courtesy of James Browne.

My Fashion S/ash Life: Tell us a little bit about your background?

Chichi: I was born in California and by the time I was a teenager I had lived on four continents; North America, Western Europe, Asia and Africa.  As a child growing up in Nigeria I was further exposed to various cultures through my interest in literature, music and film.  I am a practicing Physician as I have a passion for the sciences as well.

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My Fashion S/ash Life: When you were growing up, did you ever write stories?

Chichi: I have been writing stories for as long as I have memory of myself!

My Fashion S/ash Life: What became of those stories, did you ever try publishing them?

Chichi: I fortunately still have a few of the short stories and novels I wrote at about the age of sixteen when I was in Nigeria.  I did try to publish my work around the same time but had no access to publishers or the internet.  Due to the set up of the educational system and cultural issues pertaining to women in the arts, I was unable to pursue my art fully at the time.

My Fashion S/ash Life: Who were your favourite authors growing up and who are your favourite authors now?

Chichi: I was weaned on Enid Blyton! Shakespeare, J.M Barrie, Charles Kingsley, C.S Lewis, Charles Dickens, Onuora Nzekwu, Kola Onadipe, Road Dahl, Oscar Wilde [one of my greatest adolescent discoveries], Sidney Sheldon, Umberto Eco and the writers of “Mad magazine”! Then and now I love almost all the writers of Classic English literature.  My favourite author currently is Dana Gioia.

My Fashion S/ash Life: Tell us a little about ‘Tales of Fantasy and Reality’; what inspired you to write the novel?

Chichi: “Tales of Fantasy and Reality” is filled with poetic stories that are a balanced combination of original fantasy tales and social commentary.  With themes ranging from the eerie to the humorous and topics such as child neglect, these tales are a journey through provocative landscapes-often with quite unexpected endings.  Rhythm and verse create a lyrical narrative that will transport you to other worlds.

My inspiration came first from the realisation that I needed to develop and pursue the artistic part of my being in order to have a chance at a happy and fulfilling life.   Next I was inspired by Jeff Buckley’s “Grace” album and his absolute devotion to his craft; he showed me what it was possible to achieve through understanding one’s gift and using it in the purest and most honest way possible.

My Fashion S/ash Life: Are you collaborating with any illustrators for this novel?

Chichi: Yes, the illustrations in “Tales of Fantasy and Reality” were done by the incredibly talented and amazing James Browne. I first met him at an art fair one afternoon over 10 years ago!  His display reminded me of the art I had seen in my favourite childhood books and I bought a painting from him which still hangs on my wall.  A few months ago when I was trying to find an illustrator I looked up at the painting and thought to myself “what if?” I had no idea where he was or if he was still at his craft.  I did a Google search of his name and the rest as they say is history!

Illustration of a poem in the book titled, 'The River King'. Courtesy of James Browne.

 My Fashion S/ash Life: Your novel is a combination of 2 genre’s-short stories and poetry.  What will surprise people about this novel?

Chichi: The poetic stories in this book could easily be fleshed out into full novels or movie scripts! I have written original fantasy tales which will have people who do not typically read poetry engrossed in the story lines.  I also tackle very daunting social justice issues such as slavery and child abuse in a fresh way that avoids any gratuitous imagery and yet is still poignant, disturbing and memorable.

 My Fashion S/ash Life: Is there a short story or poem in your book that you resonate with in particular or stands out for you the most?  If so, for what reason does it do so?

Chichi: Yes, “The Muse” because it was one of the first poems I wrote when I realised that I had to pursue my writing once again after a long hiatus.  The line which formed the foundation of the poem came to me about four years earlier and I had no idea what it meant at the time.  Every time I read the poem I am reminded of the incredible creative journey I am on.  The poem talks about the need for a balance in an artist’s life so it is especially poignant.

 My Fashion S/ash Life: The short stories and poems in your novel  span from medieval times through the present day, and the poetic stories include hard hitting topics like child trafficking, the dangers of children living unsupervised lives and the evils of slavery.  How difficult was it for you to research such sensitive and complex subject matters?

Chichi: Unfortunately it was not hard at all.  Daily I am bombarded with horrible stories in the news detailing acts of inhumanity, and the exploitation of the vulnerable.  I am a keen observer of my surroundings and have always been aware of the negative consequences of greed, ignorance and misplaced value systems.

My Fashion S/ash Life: How long did it take you to write the novel , from the conception of the idea to sending it to be printed?

Chichi: About one year.

My Fashion S/ash Life: ‘Tales of Fantasy and Reality’ is your debut novel, giving that this is your first novel; I imagine that you had a lot to learn about the business and legal ramifications of writing a novel.  Could you tell us of any mistakes you made that you have learnt from in these areas, so others can learn from your learning curve?

Chichi: I am still very new to the world of self publishing but I would say the decision to self publish rather than wait endlessly for a traditional publishing house to get my work out to my readers is a decision I would recommend to other new authors.

My Fashion S/ash Life: Did you have a ‘writing process or routine’ when you wrote this novel?  For example, did you tend to write on a particular day or time.

Chichi: There was no fixed routine, but I found that words came easier when I was in motion e.g in a train or car.

My Fashion S/ash Life: Personally when I am working on a project, I use music as a way to come up with creative ideas or to relax me.  For e.g. my last styling project had a 70’s Glamour theme and I found myself listening and watching a lot of Diana Ross live videos from the 70’s.  What type of music did you listen to when writing this novel?

Chichi: Jeff Buckley, The Smiths, Leonard Cohen, Gary Lucas, Jann Klose, Pete Pidgeon, Danielle De Luca, Sting with Edin Karamazov, My 80’s favourites, Classical music, World music and my own compositions.

My Fashion S/ash Life: In writing this novel, what have been your highlights?

Chichi: The moment in November 2008 when I came to the realization that I had to write no matter what.  March 14th 2009, the day I first heard Jeff Buckley’s “Grace” and became inspired.  Performing my poems at various open mics and concerts on the East coast.  Meeting and working with phenomenal people who I otherwise would have no access to. Finally holding the first copy of my book and seeing all my tears, joys and dreams etched out on a white sheet, words destined to take flight into the clear endless sky.

To hear some of the stories and poems featured in ‘Tales from Fantasy and Reality’ please click on- www.facebook.com/LyricalGroove

Want Evening Style On A Budget? Invest in Gold Lamé Material

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Yesterday evening I went with a friend to see the ‘Die Zauberflöte – Impempe Yomlingo‘, which was interestingly came with the tag line ‘South Africa meets Mozart’.  As excited as I was to see the South African reinterpretation of my favourite opera, The Magic Flute; part of my eagerness came with the outfit I planned to wear for the night.

If you follow my personal style on my blog, you will see that I am very much into D-R-A-M-A.  So last night I decided to channel the Queen of the Night, and came up with this ensemble-

I love this gold lamé material which I got for a mere 13 euros (Bargain!!!) at an amazing fabric shop in Berlin called, Huco Stoffe; and since then I’ve been having fun turning the 2m material into all sorts of cover-ups-

The black jumpsuit is from Topshop, the belt is vintage and my metallic headband is from Accessorize.

I would say that gold lamé material is a quick, sure-fire way to add some Ritz & Glamour onto an ensemble.  To me the texture is decadence and luxury served on a silver platter and I love the way it moves and catches the  light-

My advice to all of you ladies out there is to go to your local fabric shop and see which materials you can buy to create your own makeshift shawl, scarf or cape.

What are your favourite evening wear pieces?  Do you have a particular colour combination which you wear for evening occassions? For me, as you can see I am a fan of Black and Gold.

Cornrows- My Favourite ‘Go-To’ Spring Hairstyle

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Hi everyone, like I told you last week, this was the week where I intended to bung my TWA in cornrows.  I got my hairstyle idea from various sources which included one of my favourite Madonna videos, ‘Human Nature‘-

Based on this video and other sources, I decided that I would do large cornrows, which I would give pizzazz to, by adding faux-gold hair accessories and here is the final result-

The hairstyle took about 2 hours- and could have been done in less time, if my stylist hadn’t kept yapping on her mobile throughout!- and cost me 40 euros.  When I came to Berlin, I was a bit worried about finding a hair salon that could do my cornrows, so I am very happy to have found Afro Lydia’s.

I added the faux-gold accessories myself as I wanted them to be in the exact ‘right place’.

On a separate note, yesterday I was rather alarmed when my clothing rail gave a loud groan and collapsed before my very eyes.  It was then I realised that I really do have a lot of clothes here, most of which I never wear.  So after doing a Winter to Spring ‘clothing rail edit’, I decided to start wearing a lot more of my more Spring pieces.

One of my favourite print dresses is the dress I am wearing in these pictures, which I wore to an art exhibition closing party over the weekend.  I bought it for £8 (BARGAIN!!!) in Absolute Vintage, one of  my favourite vintage shops in London.

I love the colours, print, the way the dress swishes and swashes when I move and the fact it has pockets- designers should make more dresses with pockets!

My beaded hairband is from Accessorize, and I am slowly building up a collection of hairbands.  I have them in various neon colours courtesy of American Apparel, gold, silver- I love them!

This will be my Spring hairstyle for the next few weeks until I get it changed again- yes people, I always say I am the ‘Madonna’ of hairstyles.  I love to experiment and change my look and when I am despairing about my Afro hair, sometimes I have to take a step back and rejoice that I have the kind of hair that allows me to do this.

So this is my Spring look, I’d love to hear what hairstyles you are wearing at the moment.  Are there any particular styles you want to rock?  Would you ever do cornrows?

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